The first few days at home after childbirth

first day
young mom, once in native walls, experiencing joy and relief.Now she will take care of the baby in a familiar environment.And help her in this is not only my husband, but also relatives, whose congratulations and wishes will warm the heart.However, some do not like excessive noise and want to immediately plunge into a relaxing family atmosphere when you have only three.And someone is afraid that can not cope with new responsibilities.But the young mother on the day of his return from the hospital want to feel the warmth and comfort.This will occur if all to think in advance.

I want ...
first day at home with the baby, you have the right to spend so that you both were good.Minimize the situations that can cause irritation and discomfort.If you do not want the day of discharge from the crumbs you met someone else, but her husband, report it.Let me know what you expect of a visit later.Usually only grandparents are allowed to see the first crumb.Often it is their presence helps young parent
s to adapt quickly.Asked her husband and parents to clean the apartment, wash things, ventilate the room.A month ago, you made a list of everything that you need to buy for your family with the baby back home.Suppose they are satisfied that the necessary weight is purchased.Do not worry if there is no food in the refrigerator.Rather, close solve this problem, and mom or favorite cook food at all, because they understand how hard immediately after birth stand at the stove.Remind them that you need bananas, apples, biscuits galetnoe.

Meet, we have arrived!
Dad proudly introduced the precious envelope in the apartment, and her mother, a little tired, with a smile, went to place flowers in a vase presented.Since then, the young parents begin a completely different life.In the meantime, the baby can be put in the cradle.Scarce, fed before leaving serenely sleeping.Of course, everyone, and especially to her husband, I want to look closely at the baby.Give the opportunity to admire the baby to relatives.You'll hear the sea of ​​compliments: "Oh, what a pretty! ..»

note event
If you have the strength and desire, organize a small family celebration in honor of the newborn.Noisy party now - not the best option.For home triumph enough hours.Family is enough to meet even the kitchen table to thank my mother for such a wonderful kid, and sincerely wish the new parents all the best.Do not take the surfactant to the warm words and Absorb them and passed through a: yes, my child is healthy;Yes, it will grow happy;Yes, I have the patience;Yes, we certainly do it! .. If this day you choose to spend alone with the crumbs, then you might want to just congratulate each other, cementing wishes clink of glasses ... a fragrant tea.The main thing is that you do not strain, and was enjoying a warm and homely atmosphere.

small miracle
After all the relatives to remove, even in another room, just your time will come.Left with the child alone, remember that it all began.As it is a decision to have a child (or he himself decided everything for you?).As a husband in the first trimester, so as not to provoke the exacerbation of toxicity you are not enjoying your favorite lotion, put you to sleep comfortably on the pads ... Probably, you will be pleased to talk under quiet music or, conversely, want to stay in silence, which is broken only snorecrumbs ... And maybe the child has to wake up at the next feeding.Changing diapers and feed.Or change the order.Your baby will tell himself that is more important.My husband sees it for the first time and, of course, will experience strong feelings: tenderness towards the little one, love and gratitude - to you.Do not be surprised if during feeding crumbs in the eyes of a loved notice admiration - for him it is new.You feel yourself surrounded by care: close to the support and maintenance, and on his hands - your common future.

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