And we are not immune to contradictory, complex and intricate kinship?Relations between close relatives - an important topic of the day today.
Just the facts
Alas, but otherwise seems to not work - willy-nilly, we find ourselves caught up in the conflict between fathers and sons, daughters-in-law ... And how could it be otherwise?If we are so worried about the fate of the heroes of the television series, the bride's son too - it's just an inexhaustible subject for endless emotions, tears, prophecy and disputes.Sad statistics: more than 60% of marriages fall apart without the involvement of mother-tesch, zolovok and Devereaux, but the leaders, of course, mom.Mothers of the bride and mother of the bride, that is-in-law and mother in law.This they hammered these percentages between his krovinochku and "this" or "this" who came from a stranger charter in their quiet and settled "monastery".
Have a happy family, where relatives of the couple, even if they are not too fond of the acqui
But the march of Mendelssohn played, and there was severe everyday life.Since mothers of adult children begin to occur metamorphosis: if before they dreamed about making marriage their child was happy and long, after registration in the registry office 70% in-law begin to hope for an early termination of the alliance.About to give his zhenivshemusya grew up and "baby" to plan their own destiny, and often it is not.Well, yes, he's still so small and trusting!Family quarrels and feuds might lead very far.And the young wife should think about how not to bring the situation to the point of absurdity, that is, before the divorce.You need to find out what actually manages in-law, and apply appropriate tactics.
in-law or mother-in-law if - the dictator and considers it his duty to observe and analyze every moment of family life of his child, it is better to establish the boundaries of the relationship, making it clear that such an intrusive intervention does not suit you.At first, the relationship could be exacerbated, but then they will take you to a comfortable level and character.If the mother of your husband for a minute does not leave to care for their precious everywhere sticks his nose, just try not to be offended.Take note thanked her.Fortunately, this mother is usually easy to dose, it is greedy for flattery and accept at face value the assurances of love and indispensability.There is another option: his mother is constantly complaining about the lack of pro- bots on your side, it's always something hurts, and the "ambulance" on duty at her door.This is a typical emotional blackmail, and you lose if it immediately succumbed.With such a "mother" to behave calmly and strictly.As with the child.Otherwise, you can drown in a sea of tears and her spoil relations with his own spouse, who is convinced that his mother can not lie.There are in-law - a kind of "adventurers" in the lives of their daughters.They dig in their bags and drawers, eavesdrop on phone conversations, and carefully studying the color of dirt on outdoor shoes.To deal with them practically impossible, they will become more cautious and more dangerous for your family union.It makes sense in an ironic form tell about it to her husband, who probably knows about her mother's eccentricities.
Well, the future spouses, who together with his loved ones become more and a whole bunch of his relatives, it may be advisable to be more reserved and kind.Write a simple, hard to do.It's hard to love someone else's mother, who you can not stand.But even the dog stops barking up a tree that is just swinging in the wind.That wobble, not hearing or feeling of what to hear and do not want to feel.Go away from unpleasant conversation, do not say words that can destroy what you have built with so much love.And no matter how many years you may be, be smarter and fairer.Jealous husband to his mother - a dead end.Therefore, allow it to love him with all the strength, and themselves remained his one and only, remembering that night cuckoo always perekukuet day.Fractures related to himself his "new mom" and become her allies, this is easy to do, just do not claim to be its sacred place in his life, but not to allow its territory.